People come into your life for a reason, a season, or a lifetime.
When you figure out which one it is, you will know what to do for each
person.
When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a
need you have expressed. They have come to assist you through a
difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you
physically, emotionally, or spiritually.
They are there for the reason you need them to be. Then, without any
wrongdoing on your part, or at an inconvenient time, this person will
say or do something to bring the relationship to an end. Sometimes they
walk away. Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.
Sometimes they die.
What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire
fulfilled, their work is done. Your need has been answered, and now it
is time to move on.
When people come into your life for a SEASON, it is because your turn
has come to share, grow, or learn. They bring you an experience of
peace, or make you laugh. They may teach you something you have never
done. They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it!
It is real! But, only for a season.
LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons; things you must
build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is to
accept the lesson, love the person, and put what you have learned to
use in all other relationships and areas of your life. It is said that
love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant.
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